Alfonso, 39 Alien From Outer Space Nerd. Geographically undesirable. Vegan. Spends most Friday nights working on his vintage spacecraft. Expert in anal probing without the subject even having a memory of the procedure. Joe, 54 AKA Jabba The Hut Fat and gaining. Has...
It’s Saturday evening in Charlotte, NC and hottern’ell in September — 94 degrees at 6pm. Aside from absolutely hating the summer season (that just won’t quit) with its scorching sun, hot weather, humidity, bugs and sweat, now I’m faced with what to do on a Saturday...
Cancelled my subscription and deleted my profile on match.com. What a useless online dating service – no good matches, no dates, no meetings, nothing. Ninety-nine percent of the people in the profiles looked like they were straight out of the looney bin and the...
Had a date with Brian (from Bumble). He lives in northwest Charlotte, so I suggested we meet at Red Rocks Cafe in Birkdale Village, rather than traveling all the way to Uptown or Dilworth. I got there 15 minutes early and ordered my standard Tito’s martini with a...
Charlotte, North Carolina. Being gay, male, single and 50-something is just … tragic. Sad really, although I recall it wasn’t really much easier in my 30’s – there was aol chat room and manhunt.net (still exists). I’ve tried match.com, OkCupid, hinge, bumble,...
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